The Christmas Truce

A moment of vulnerability and gratitude for the ages

Welcome to the Christmas edition of The Resilience Brief. I‘m certain that we all have better things to do on Christmas morning than to open this email, so I’ll keep this one short and sweet.

On Christmas Eve of 1914, in the brutal and bitter cold of the Western Front of World War I, something extraordinary happened. Soldiers from the opposing sides of Britain, France and Germany put down their weapons to make time and space for an unofficial and spontaneous truce.

It is said that it began with carols softly sung from the trenches, the voices coming from the German side and floating over the battlefield. After a short while, some of the soldiers stepped into "No Man’s Land," the area that had been a fierce battleground just a short while earlier. They weren’t there for any sort of fight, but simply to greet one another.

It was a brief, magical moment. The spirit of Christmas and the power of gratitude momentarily replaced the horrors of war. The soldiers shared small gifts such as chocolates, cigarettes, and buttons. They took a moment to forget being soldiers and reverted back to the basic instinct of being human beings - they laughed, swapped stories, and even played soccer. The truce didn’t end the war, but it was a moment in time to symbolize hope, connection, and humanity amidst the chaos and horrors of war.

It was a moment where soldiers remembered what else was in their lives other than the war. They focused on things that they had to be grateful for, the small items that they wanted to share with others, the spirit to help another human being.

I can’t help but think of these men and wonder what they really had left to give. They would have been exhausted, afraid, freezing cold, some of them likely injured. But it was a moment to prove that, even in the darkest times, gratitude can create light. It has the power to bridge divides, build connection, and increase our inner strength. It was a moment to appreciate the good in others and the blessings in their lives, and by that they were able to strengthen their capacity to keep moving forward.

It’s well over 100 years since the Christmas Truce of 1914 but, as the world continues to face its own challenges, we can find our own guiding light from the soldiers who found gratitude amidst adversity. Whether we’re surrounded by family, connecting from afar, or reflecting quietly, we can take a moment to stop and simply soak up the beauty in our lives. Gratitude is a gift we can give ourselves and others. It’s a gift that builds resilience and strengthens our shared humanity.

Happy Holidays, and may gratitude guide you into the new year.

Until next time friends, stay resilient.